Re: I gamble for a living.......
The only way other players affect my play is by smoking and drunkeness. I hates playing with other players.
It does you no good to scold and blame them, and CERTAINLY does you no good to help them. I gave this examble at RTP shortly before I was banned there for the 43rd time.
You're at the BJ table and Darryl shows up with his other brother Darryl and his girlfriend Maria. Darryl plops down those cigarettes and lighter out of his left hand and gets ready to play. We play for a few hands and it's a fun time for all. But then Darryl gets down a little, and doubt is slowly creeping into his mind. He begins asking Maria for advice and then his other brother Darryl, both valuable resources. The losing escalates, so he suddenly thinks I'm the Oracle of Las Vegas. I could be losing just as badly, but the quickness of my decisions seems to impress him. So he starts pounding me.
Here we go. Darryl draws 16 v.10, no surrender. "What should I do?" So, early on, I would turn professorial and tell him that if you hit, you would win 23.4 hands out of 100 and if you stand you will win 22.8 out of 100, according to the math, and that I would hit.
Of course he would then lose what amounts to a coin flip and then forever hate me. LOL. There is no upside.
I was young and idealistic then. Now, if I play BJ at all, I play by myself. It's not because I think the goofball next to me makes the wrong play and I'm going to suffer because of it, but because other players are just insufferable and slow down the game.