Re: Am I The Only Guy That Does Not Lie About Getting Laid?
Re: Am I The Only Guy That Does Not Lie About Getting Laid?
Here's my advice on how to get and actually KEEP women.
1) Personal hygiene. Smelling good is most important, having clean nice teeth is the other. Girls love kissing, they have to want to kiss you if they are going to be with you, your teeth have to be white and clean all the time. Scrub your underarms, don't go heavy on the deoderant or cologne, it looks like you are trying to hard. If you shower and have very clean clothes, you really don't need all that much deoderant or cologne. women like to smell a MAN. A dab of cologne won't hurt. Girls love Zegna cologne, its the best smelling one i've found, my girlfriend loves it and all her hot friends do to.
2) Learn a bit about fashion. You don't have to be walking out of GQ, but the nicer you dress, the better shot you have, which is pretty obvious.
3) Be yourself. If you are a nice guy, be a nice guy. Don't put on some act, women can see right thru all the fake stuff, they've had every line and game tried on them, they are experts in this stuff and you are not, so just realizing they can see right thru you is enough to not bother pretending you are something you are not.
4) there is a lot to be said for a decent man who knows how to treat women right and with respect. Remember, all women have friends who they confide in and all women talk constantly on a daily basis about their man...they NEED something to brag about which means you have to have some positive qualities. If you don't look like Brad Pitt you have to make up for that in other ways.
5) work out at the gym and eat healthy foods and have healthy habits. Any positive habit you have makes your stock as dating material go higher. Remember, you are in competition with other men, you have to beat them in at least SOME categories. This category is optional, depending on how hard you wanna work at this.
6) Untrain your mind to view women as sex objects. I know guys who love strip clubs and jacking off to porn, girls can 'sense' a man who objectifes women. If you are constantly viewing women as sex objects its going to be pretty hard to respect them as people.
7) dont' do stuff out of nervous habits on first dates or during initial meetings. Men who are desperate have a tendency to talk too much and when you talk too much because you are nervous, there might be something you'll say that will turn her off. you CANT turn her off in ANY WAY on the initial meeting. Say very little. Listen to her talk, she's the girl so she's allowed to say anything she wants. Dont go into any controversial conversations about politics or stuff like that, keep it simple and talk about current events and be as politically correct as possible.
8) Dont be a wimp even if you are. One of the most important things women look for is for the ability of their man to kick ass and protect them if the going gets tough. You have to protect a confident image like you can win a fight. Women LOVE thinking their man can kick some other man's ass in a fight (even if he cannot)
9) Dont talk about gambling off the bat. dont say you are a tout, a gambler or anything like that unless you are living in a nice house and driving a 50K or more car. Anything less they'll think you are a losing gambler who will be hitting them up for money sooner rather than later.
10) get out more. Hanging out on EOG is one of the most fun things on earth, but its not going to get your dick wet.
11) when women look at men, the first thing they think about is, "is this guy responsible enough to be the father of my children" all women are thinking about mr right because all women want to be married someday. Maybe they are not looking to get married today, but they all know they want to someday, so their instincts are to size men up in the 'husband material' fashion.
12) dont' talk about relationships or sex on the first date or during the initial meeting. Nothing good can come from that. save it for later when you get to know her better.
13) have the attitude that you are looking for a serious girlfriend and not just 'dating around'. Don't tell a girl you want a serious relationship right away, but if you are thinking pure thoughts on a monogamous relationship and act like a 'one woman man', girls like that, they don't want some guy who's looking to get laid, there are plenty of men out there doing the same thing, you want to be different.
14) most men are looking for one thing and because they are looking for one thing, their 'vibe' comes across as they are looking for one thing and women can see right thru them. You have to seriously convince yourself you are looking for a long term monogamous relationship, even if you are not.
15) don't EVER tell a girl you visited a hooker for ANY reason whatsoever. Dont even think that if you tell her you used a condom it will be ok, it wont. Dont think that you are being noble by being honest, because she will say she's glad you are honest but she's never going to respect you if you said you went to a hooker. Just dont ever tell her, trust me. Its your little secret.
(if i think of any more, i'll post them)
